How Does Your Religion Affect Your Daily Life?
October 24, 2007
Interesting question, I think. For me, I would have to say that my religion hardly impacts my daily life at all. Actually, I consider myself without religion, although I hold to a Deist philosophy. So what does this mean? It’s interesting really, at least for me, because I feel free from the constraints of any particular belief system. I am able to discover what appeals to my own reason, and pursue that which my reason dictates.
Here is why I consider myself without religion: I have no daily, weekly, or other actions that result from my beliefs in spirituality. Many will talk of themselves as having faith, but not religion. However, I see religion as the outward actions that take place as a result of one’s faith.
I suppose I would consider myself as having some sort of “faith,” as I do believe in some sort of creator. While I don’t possess any personal experience with this creator, or have any “proof” of its existence, I do still believe that the universe reflects creation of some sort. However, the difference with me vs. people of regular mainstream religions is that my “faith” is really more philosophical than practical. This means that I almost consider myself agnostic in the sense that I don’t think we can ever really know the creative force. However, I’m not a true agnostic in that I do think there is some sort of creative force.
It’s really a mixed up system, but I understand it quite well and it makes sense to me and appeals to my reasoning. This is why I consider myself a Deist. It is the one established form of belief that most closely aligns with my beliefs.
It is really a very great philosophy for me because I remain open to intellectual integrity. In other words, if I come across something that really changes my mode of thinking and truly appeals to my sense of reason, then I can make the necessary adjustments. So far, I’ve never come across anything with that amount of force behind it, but one never knows. I can engage in religious conversations (which I love) without feeling the need to be right. I like to play devil’s advocate just to keep the conversation moving. I am not trying to convince someone else that I’m right and therefore he or she is wrong. For me, it’s not about who is right and who is wrong. For me, it’s the discussion that I love, the possibility of finding new ways to think about things. One thing I’ve learned in my few years on this earth is that I don’t know! I can’t know! Therefore, I’m not going to devote my life to something that makes no sense, and I’m certainly not out to win people to my way of thinking. I get nothing from that.
So how does your religion affect your life? Do you enjoy the intellectual stimulation from a great conversation, or do you try to change minds? Is it about right and wrong for you? Do you know that you are right and therefore I am wrong? If so, how do you know? Are you open to new ideas and perspectives, or do you stay with what you “know?” How do you act differently because of your religion than you might if you didn’t have that religion? These are all great questions and can be a lot of fun to answer, not to mention, give you more insight into yourself.
October 24, 2007 at 3:36 pm
Do you think that people require a category of belief in order to feel a sense of belonging? Is this how religion is affecting life – structuring our ideas and beliefs into usable concepts? Take it all away and our lives are not only meaningless but also unlivable, in the sense that our religions assist the information/interaction process.
Does it help to organise and give consistency to thoughts by belonging to such a category? Or could it be that humanity needs to belong to a group (physical and mental/ideological) so they relieve some sort of psychological tension about being ’stranded’ alone without another being that shares similar ideas?
Maybe humans require validation of their belief systems by looking to external agents who they can observe practicing the same methodologies. In a sense, the only truly ‘free’ individuals are the eccentrics; those who honestly do not care what their beliefs are or whether they fit in with the majority or even the minority.
October 26, 2007 at 2:28 pm
I have been involved with many Religions, as I says now I have graduated from all of them. I do not call myself Diest. My approach is a diest believe and so….I AM
October 26, 2007 at 2:46 pm
Thanks for the comment Cindy. I appreciate it.
V,
I meant to respond to you earlier, and forgot. You raise some good questions. After doing a little more thinking, I realized something, and I think it’s exactly what you were getting at. (Maybe)
I think in our previous discussions, we’ve both made mention of the “meaning of life.” (I know we have both written entries on the subject). We all know that people are looking for meaning in life. How do we find meaning, perhaps many find it by knowing that they “belong.” You find people whom you have respect for, listen to their ideas, realize that they’re successful, and so adopt that person’s position as their own (it also helps if those positions align with your own beliefs).
For others, such as you and me, perhaps meaning comes in the exploration…the journey, not the destination of belief. I’m making an assumption, but I’ve had the impression that you too remain open to other ideas, if they align with your thinking. I as well. My question is…Are there personality traits that tend people toward religion or freethinking?
October 27, 2007 at 10:10 pm
I would like to take a stab at your question.
My religion does affect my daily life because my religion is really a relationship. As in most relationships that are based on love, it can’t help but be affected.
What baffles me is that God loves me far better than I could ever love Him. This “bafflement” is what draws me closer to Him. To me, I think it boils down to the greatest mystery of the Christian faith– that is, by my faith Christ lives in me. By the fruits of the Spirit, as a result of Christ in me, I live out my day the way God created me to live— by truly loving and making sense to my purpose and existence in this dark, difficult world.
October 29, 2007 at 1:07 pm
ohhh poor man..
October 29, 2007 at 1:23 pm
Jan Michael Lachica…I don’t understand your comment I’m afraid. To whom were you referring?
Dave…
Thanks for the post. I understand where you’re coming from, and I appreciate that. What I find interesting though is that Christians and non-Christians have a disconnect on purpose and meaning in life. Many Christians seem to think that non-Christians must have a life without meaning, and many non-Christians see Christians as having a false sense of reality. It’s just interesting to see the different perspectives.
February 28, 2008 at 3:50 pm
When I read your questions at the end of this post I wanted to answer them right away, maybe for myself, I don’t know, but I figure’ I’d sent the response to you anyhow–
I would say I think I am right…
And if ever I am not right, I will change what I believe so I am right. That doesn’t necessarily come from other people, I learn from life travels, experiences, real situations, not just books and discussions. But yes, as far as I know, I am right. Why else would I believe what I believe??
I would also say I am open to new perspectives… granted I will hear many and be changed by few. I have friends from various backgrounds including Agnostic, Deist and that of the Buddha and I can say I agree with them on several aspects. Truth is truth no matter what form it comes in, no matter what religious title it is found under, no matter where you find it.
I stay with what I find to be true. And I find more about that daily. I am young and still learning so much. My mind was closed for a long time refusing to believe anything aside from what I was taught growing up. But the more I listen and consider, the more I learn. Sometimes straying from the ‘church’, my family, my religion even… (If that is possible…I feel like I am who makes my religion) but always where I find truth, I stay with myself, with my God, the God, the one I find to be true.
I take the Bible as truth. I guess that’s where faith comes in. I don’t sweat the minute, over scrutinized details that don’t directly influence my daily/weekly/monthly decision/choices about my life. Not that I haven’t thought about them. I do think about them often, I think some things that most people consider “unbelievable” in the Bible are because they find God unbelievable… does that make sense? I guess if you don’t think God exists or that he is as powerful as he claims to be, than no, you are not going to believe some stuff in the bible (“miracles, signs and wonders”). I guess I get that… but I don’t see that as underestimating or not believing the bible, but instead, God.
I think there is such a thing as common ground when it comes to good and evil. Those more educated than others on a certain topic/situation are more apt to recognize the potential ‘evil,’ or the long term effects of quick decisions or self satisfying indulgences.
I think however that “the worst enemy of that which is best is that which is good.” (I think Neil Anderson started that.)
So it’s tricky sometimes to pick the greatest “good.” I just try to stick with what I think is wise and beneficial, reflecting character.
I would say that is a pretty good summary.
My “religion” does affect my daily life; some days more than others. A whole day can go by and I not think once of God or faith or religion… (that’s unfortunate and hope that changes) but I normally (not as closely as the days where I have consciously thought of those things) act in a way that reflects my beliefs, the things I find to be good and true…beneficial to me and those around me. Those things have made me who I am. And who I am determines what I do…
The more time I spend with God, Christ, in the Bible, what have you, the more I act in the ways I see beneficial. It’s the whole abide in me and I will abide in you thing— that goes the same with any relationship. Even here on earth, the more time you spend with your family or friends the more you learn about them, their character influences off on you, etc.
I definitely enjoy “intellectual stimulation from great conversation.” I like to be challenged. People pointing out the “holes or flaws” in my beliefs either changes my beliefs or causes me to dig deeper to prove that flaw wrong, or my belief right… so it is a win/win, like I said, the truth is always true…
No matter where you find it…
I wouldn’t say I try to change minds… but I do try to get people to see the truth. Hear me out: I don’t mean the bible Jesus truth—I mean how this or that effects you and others, how this choice or action does matter— I do answer the questions people ask me, I try to explain to them why what I believe is right/beneficial and ‘good’ however you want to look at it…
How do you act differently because of your religion than you might if you didn’t have that religion?
That one is bottomless. My faith, education, religion, life experiences, discussions… all those things combined, determine how I act and who I have decided to become. So yes, I do act differently.
I probably get told daily I am different… it confuses people really…
Like I said before, my beliefs definitely affect my daily life.
From what I watch, how I think, where I go, what I say and do…
Lots.
I have heard several times I am the most honest person so and so has ever known.
I will tell you the truth no matter where I find it, even if it hurts, even if it is my mistake I am confessing. It sucks sometimes when I mess up (mess up being doing something in one way or another that has harmful consequences or goes against what I have already said I believe was ‘best’) because then… still comes the truth… yes I was speeding, yes I did say that… no I don’t think that is a good idea… yes I will be there, [and so I am there]…I can always back myself up.
Not that I haven’t lied ever in my life—just making sure you know I know I am not perfect!
The good thing about telling the truth though, is you never have to remember what you said.
I am not the best with words, as you can probably tell, but I try to spew them out and keep them straight.
How do I act differently though?
I try my hardest to be selfless, encouraging, honest, helpful, and patient.
I am nice, but smart enough not to be taken advantage of.
I am blunt, honest, and real which sometimes comes across as rude and mean.
I am loving and giving.
I am generous and faithful.
Anyone can count on me to do what I say I am going to do.
I mean what I say and I say what I mean.
The things I believe I live everyday.
I think you said something about not wanting or having a religion to restrain you. I think, that anytime you find something to be true, helpful, beneficial, you are going to follow it and let it change the way you think. Like when you learn that cheating on your significant other not only hurts their heart and feelings but could end up causing you to be known as a liar cheat and alone, you don’t do it. Now is that a restriction? Are you constrained? Or are you just doing what you want to do, because you know it is good for you and your family?
I say all that just to say, I don’t feel constrained with my faith/religion/whatever, constrained makes me think of rules and how I can or can’t do something because I have heard or read this rule…
I do or don’t do something because I have found it wise and beneficial or perhaps harmful and useless…
In other words, just like you, “if I come across something that really changes my mode of thinking and truly appeals to my sense of reason, then I can make the necessary adjustments.”
I feel like I have devoted my life to things have do make great sense. The things that are beneficial and helpful, loving and true.
My blog is not a blog to change anyone’s mind…but if it reveals something in a way that they haven’t thought of before, awesome! I normally write it for myself though, as a reminder or to sort things out. It is my blog. It isn’t about religion or God or love or friends, but all those things are in there because it is about my life. It helps me get my thoughts and ideas out so they aren’t running over and over in my head at night keeping me awake…feel free to check it out.
Holle
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May 7, 2009 at 8:34 am
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